London
On why I don’t get to London often enough. Fish and chips on Notting Hill. Noodles and dumplings steaming in Chinatown. And the correct Brasier.
My writing for women reclaiming their natural power.
For women reclaiming power and somatic leadership.
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I am harbour
She didn’t come to visit. She came to nap. She lay down because my house holds. I am harbour.
On Nitpicking
Nitpicking happens in the moment. Without thought. Without impact assessment. Without malice.
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The bed is not the field
Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.
Where are you supposed to meet your mate? (If not at work?)
Work is where you build your life. You meet your mate where you live. Not where compliance manuals say it is safe.
The sword they carry
I didn’t just birth daughters. I birthed flames. They won’t leave my house empty-handed. They will leave carrying the sword I placed.
Placement: A somatic method for restoring feminine power and leadership
Stress floods your body with hormones that wear you down. Placement gives a practical, body-based way to bring those levels down and restore calm and balance.
Melbourne
My body rewires through his restraint. From hyper-vigilance to sovereignty, biology restores what trauma stole.
When inside becomes the safest place
Inside is not romance. It is not reward. It is the structure where he lands and rests because I said so.
On Pegging: Five Paths of Sovereignty
Pegging is not play. It is placement. Five ways to govern his release and prove your sovereignty.
BlackPink: repetition. Lai Yin: installation.
From repetition and drills to Pavlov. BlackPink rehearse until the beat owns them. I install and reward. Hormones do the rest.
Gaza without governance
Fathers carry what’s left of their children in plastic bags. Bosses keep talking. Allies keep sending weapons.
Pegging for landing.
Pegging isn’t kink. It’s correction. A raw, embodied practice that rewires trauma, restores power, and resets the nervous system from the inside out.
Women at the beach. What nature already knows.
Before I birthed my daughters, bikinis they were for covering. Today I see them wearing them to be naked in sunlight.