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On why I don’t get to London often enough. Fish and chips on Notting Hill. Noodles and dumplings steaming in Chinatown. And the correct Brasier.
My writing for women reclaiming their natural power.
For women reclaiming power and somatic leadership.
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I am harbour
She didn’t come to visit. She came to nap. She lay down because my house holds. I am harbour.
On Nitpicking
Nitpicking happens in the moment. Without thought. Without impact assessment. Without malice.
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When to place daughters
Placement is not control. It is return. Let her run wild. Let her dance. She will know when. You will know when.
When he suckles while stroking
A plug holds him while my breast holds his mouth. No thrust. No friction. No performance. Just two points of contact: root and mouth.
On Plugging: Setup and Context
How I use release to clear his system and place his devotion to learn how to plug. He receives my instruction without confusion or buildup.
Installing his pet name
A 7-day protocol that installs his pet name as signal. His body links your voice to arousal, safety, and surrender. He softens, obeys and orbits on command.
Before protocols begin: Prepping your body + voice
Before you install the signal, become the signal. This short guide preps your body, voice, and nervous system so your presence lands.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part three.
Part three of a three-part series showing women how to test a man’s obedience to her frame. This post gives a clean menu of belief tests to see if he can follow, stay placed, and hold orbit inside her space without performance, pressure, or pretence.
Why placement beats the bottle
He doesn’t drink because he’s weak. He drinks because he’s unplaced. Placement calms his nervous system and removes the need for escape.
The Hormonal Loop
In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is rewired.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part two.
Part two of a three-part series showing women how to place a man from the start. This post gives clear steps to establish boundaries, command loyalty, protect your space, and set your terms from the beginning.
Daily rituals for aging with power
These five daily rituals restore dignity, sensuality, and presence to the process of aging. Power doesn’t fade.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part one.
Part one of a three-part series on placement. This post gives the lived context and the standard that makes everything work.
Rooting: Why I let my man come on my body
This isn’t submission. It’s structure. I let him land on me because I hold the house, and placement is power.