London
On why I don’t get to London often enough. Fish and chips on Notting Hill. Noodles and dumplings steaming in Chinatown. And the correct Brasier.
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I am harbour
She didn’t come to visit. She came to nap. She lay down because my house holds. I am harbour.
On Nitpicking
Nitpicking happens in the moment. Without thought. Without impact assessment. Without malice.
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The use of voice in placement and receiving
In my domain, my voice is instrumental.
Why can’t he stay tuned?
Men are not static. They are built to move, rise, and return. Tuning is not control. It’s meeting him at design specifications.
The girls are in their room
I didn’t declare myself mother to another daughter. I became her mother the moment I stopped tracking her as “other.”
Seoul
I travelled alone this trip. It was a reclamation. A return. A restoration of what I never should’ve lost.
Lisbon
From shaded avenues and rooftop vistas to watching him pulse to downbeat tracks and cocktails.
Does a placed man’s semen taste better?
Yes. A placed man. A governed man, a held man; doesn’t just feel different. His semen shifts. His chemistry shifts. And a woman’s body reads that.
I want him because I choose him
I don’t fuck because I should. I fuck because I want to. I don’t receive him as a chore. I receive him because I claim him.
Why I don’t wash him away
I don’t wipe. I don’t rush. I don’t clean. Not because I’m soft. Because I am signal. His release is not a mess. It’s a message. And I keep it until I say otherwise.
The code beneath the practice
Unacknowledged pressure turns to noise. Claimed pressure returns to order.
The Sybian is for me. His orgasm is for me too.
I don’t use my body to buy peace. I use my body to place him. And the machine? That’s just efficiency.
Householding is not chastity culture
The real difference between PornHub chastity and planned placement.
Why I swallow
Swallowing is not performance. It’s programming. And sometimes, it’s the clearest signal of all.