The code beneath the practice
Unacknowledged pressure turns to noise. Claimed pressure returns to order.
Householding
Householding is the structure she holds in the home. It is the rhythm, order, mood, and standard everyone rests in. Her steadiness shapes the space. Her signal sets the tone. He stays in orbit through tethering. He stays calm and focused through maintenance. Together these keep her powerful and oxytocin rich, and the home quiet, steady, and responsive to her.
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I share my house with a man. My space. My rhythm. My bed. And because I want no drama, I tune him.
Householding is not cuckolding
I don’t fuck other men. I rarely fuck my own man. I hold my house clean. This is not rebellion. This is householding.