Why would a man want to be placed?
A man doesn’t resist direction. He recognises it as freedom and devotion. The highest form of power.
Placement
Placement is a somatic modality that stabilizes hormones. It restores polarity by regulating the sexual dynamic between a woman and her man. She says when, where, and how he comes. She gets power and gravity. He gets clarity and focus.
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The biology of placement
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.
Placement: A somatic method for restoring feminine power and leadership
Stress floods your body with hormones that wear you down. Placement gives a practical, body-based way to bring those levels down and restore calm and balance.
When inside becomes the safest place
Inside is not romance. It is not reward. It is the structure where he lands and rests because I said so.
Does placement work? (And what semen-on-skin actually does)
Semen on skin is not about arousal or subservience. It’s about placement. Biological, psychological, and relational. And yes; it works. But not because of a mystical belief.
Making him come for you
You do not have to chase, please, or perform to hold power in your relationship. You claim it by standing in it, and he orbits that.
Why there’s no halfway
If I don’t govern, he has to. And when he governs, I orbit him. My freedom lives in my command. I govern what is mine. He orbits me.
When to place daughters
Placement is not control. It is return. Let her run wild. Let her dance. She will know when. You will know when.
The Hormonal Loop
In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is rewired.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part one.
Part one of a three-part series on placement. This post gives the lived context and the standard that makes everything work.
Rooting: Why I let my man come on my body
This isn’t submission. It’s structure. I let him land on me because I hold the house, and placement is power.
Lisbon
From shaded avenues and rooftop vistas to watching him pulse to downbeat tracks and cocktails.