Protocols · · 1 min read

Why I swallow

Swallowing is not performance. It’s programming. And sometimes, it’s the clearest signal of all.

Why I swallow
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Note: The following section contains explicit discussion of embodied intimacy and sexual practice, written as function. Read only if you consent to adult material.

I don’t swallow because it’s sexy.
I don’t swallow because he wants me to.
I swallow because it’s effective.

When I choose to swallow, it’s not about pleasure. It’s about programming.
It’s a deliberate act, a calculated signal, a precise tool in my repertoire.

I don’t do it every time.
I do it when the moment calls for it.
When the ask is significant.
When the tether needs reinforcement.
When I require his full attention and alignment.

It’s not about submission.
It’s about control.
It’s about directing the energy, anchoring the connection, and ensuring the message lands.

Swallowing is not routine.
It’s a strategic move, used with intention and purpose.

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